Cute gestures mean more when the effort continues
I love a sweet surprise, but I’ve learned to pay just as much attention to the ordinary days that follow it.
Read entry →A personal relationship journal
I’m a romantic, but I care most about what happens after the cute moment.
Thoughts on dating, thoughtful gestures, communication, effort, and the everyday parts of getting close to someone that matter more than a perfect first impression.
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Notes from lately
I love romance. I just think the best version of it is backed up by consistency, honesty and actually knowing the person you’re dating.
I want dates that feel personal, not perfect
The best plans are usually the ones that show someone listened to what I actually enjoy.
Read entry →Saying what you mean is underrated
I’m much happier with honest words than with a week of trying to interpret hints.
Read entry →Being chosen should feel calm too
Excitement matters, but I don’t think love has to feel uncertain in order to feel intense.
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Why I started writing
I wanted to keep track of what romance actually means to me.
I’m definitely someone who appreciates a thoughtful gesture. But dating has taught me that the gesture itself is only one part of it. What matters more is whether kindness, effort and attention show up consistently.
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